Who Wins? The good witch or the bad?

We moved here about two years ago.  Many of our neighbors are second or third generation here, others are more recent, but we are definitely the new kids on the block.  You remember what it is like to be the new kid.  When I am going into new situations I often begin...

It feels so WRONG, when it’s not RIGHT…

Sometimes my mind loves black and white thinking. And sometimes I hate that it does. And no, the irony of this is not lost on me. If I am thinking “mindlessly,” meaning without mindful awareness, my mind loves to decide right/wrong, good/bad, like/don’t like.  Not...

What If I Don’t Feel Nice Today?

Kindness. It sometimes feels like a “have to” or a “should.” Forced kindness can feel terrible and can evoke the thought of laying myself down at the feet of someone harsh and uncaring, and saying, “No, really. I don’t mind.  You can walk on me–I like...

Stare Down That Dog

I overheard some women talking in a café. They were swapping stories about their neighbors. Apparently one of the women has a neighbor, as she described it, with “a slight case of obsessive-compulsive disorder”… “She keeps her yard immaculate”.  She continued to say. ...